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TEXT IN GREEN ARE LINKS - CLICK ON THEMThe power of writing (letters) is second only to the power of talking (speech). Writing has a unique feature that speech lacks in that it immortalizes words as it encapsulates its power. Words, a language of thought can be expressed visually, audibly and perhaps can transcend traditional methods. "Sometimes we actually know what someone else is thinking." Reading a mind, involves the same sequence of skills as reading a book. Mind reading is simply translating thoughts or words without sight or sound. Cavemen very likely communicated without language. The hieroglyphics in caves represented writing in its earliest form. Our history has been captured by writers through words and pictures. Words bring structure to life. All words, whether recorded on paper or etched in stone perpetuates thought and history. History is listed through the passion of literature. Writing is a natural expression of existence. Similar to any other feeling or emotion, writing is the substance of a type of energy we often underestimate. Before there was language; gestures, images and other forms of communication ruled the day. Today's audible language works through spoken words just as sign language works through visual cues. Is this why the Bible says death and life are in the power of the tongue? Communication requires working tools to function at full duplex (back and forth). The main tool needed for this are words, and words can be made to work for us or be weaponized against us. Gossip and spoken words, whether accepted or ostracized can be quickly spread without scrutiny and easily misapplied. Written words are not as intrusive; we can't hear them and they cannot be forced on us. Written words do not assault us visually as live or recorded images do with our sensory faculties. The reading process involves making a optional decision to exercise a learned skill. We can elect to be willfully blind, apathetic or informed just by reading. Written words cannot change their meaning and initially require more mental energy to absorb and understand then spoken words. Hearing does not require attentive listening, but reading always involves the mental effort of deciphering thought conveyed through text. The procedure starts with an arrangement of letters, and the words they form. The words arranged in structures called sentences form thoughts. The thoughts form a projected thesis, a comparable logical antithesis and a settled synthesis. This is how we get thought to make sense to us. Written or spoken words always mean exactly what they "do" not necessarily what they "say." Contrary to popular beliefs words can not be interpreted! Words have definitions not interpretations. Words are the tools for the interpretation of thoughts and intents. THE POWER OF WORDS MAY BE SIMPLY DESCRIBED AS: THEY ARE, WHAT THEY DO! It's their effect, especially when written, that establishes their power to connect us all together, both readers and writers. ![]() The "gift of literacy" is special! This is a form of communication that is as powerful as any direct personal contact or conversation. There are many non-verbal forms of communication that we fail to acknowledge and practice. Our survival may not depend upon reading and writing, but in this society it is a big part of our self determination. The power of the written word rivals the power of spoken words in one way, "its has the power of permanency!" It's tangible form (wherever it is and whatever it is on) sustains "its message." Words in and of themselves when arranged or grouped properly have a spiritual dimension to them. After all Jesus said the words that he spoke unto us they are spirit and they are life. Love letters are similar and have the power to affect not only the intended recipient of the letter but also everyone who reads it. We are sharing a personal romantic letter, written in the power and spirit of romance. Although it is somewhat redacted it serves as an example of the power of words contained within a letter. A well written letter has the power to alter consciousness, liberate people, heal and rebuke spirits. Just read your Bible, your constitution or your declaration of independence. The passion of love mingled with literacy has no limits. THE LETTERTHE WHITE WRITINGS CONTAINS THE LETTER. PINK PARENTHESIS ARE COMMENTS & FOOTNOTES. Dear Husband/Wife, Writing you allows me to capture the passion of my feelings in words. This is the best way of reflecting upon and retaining our intimate emotional experiences. My love often loses its patience and grows tired of waiting for my "sporadic" moments of expression. (There are too many times that our heads fail to say what our hearts put on our mind.) Suppressed words and emotions bottled up inside of me need more then a spontaneous session of intimacy to dissolve. Such yearning can only be temporarily relieved during the explosive intensity of intimate physical passion. The experiences we've exchanged and shared are mired in recollections that should never be lost! I often find them floating about and mixed-up with volumes of spoken words. How many of these precious memories can we store in our minds? (It is only what we intentionally capture that we can be sure of properly preserving.) The images seared in my memory of our bodies in perfect harmony tempt me to relive those encounters again and again. More and more I realize that it is the quality of what we produce that makes it worth remembering. My love, I'm so happy that we've discovered the value of making art rather then just appreciating it. The lingering love we make today does not compare to the shallow sensual sex of the past. (Growing and maturing is a life long all encompassing experience. We should expect it in our careers, relationships, sex lives and thinking.) Since we have learned this valuable lesson in time let's make and record our words for the world. As we grow from crude painters to artists, let's rediscover out brushes, paint and canvass in new ways both erotic and exotic. There is no limit to the beauty our bodies can capture. (Thoughts can become things when we continue to proclaim them!) While we're practicing making memories I have some ideas for a blockbuster. Do such thoughts excite you? I like the idea of using words to rekindle warm feelings. Fondling such thought arouses many delicate sensations. (The practice of proclaiming words describing any aspect of life actually assists in creating that action into life. Thoughts about feelings recreate those selfsame feelings.) I savor the ability to recall our personal experiences. Caressing words by reading them makes it easy to embrace their memories even if we get too old to do anything about them. I want to cherish and bring to remembrance every episode of mutual enjoyment. (Many of our quiet times and private conversations although lightly regarded should be fondly remembered.) The bits and pieces of dialogue mingled within the intercourse of multiple interactions have created multiple fond memories. I now can share many of these stolen intimate open eyed moments with you. Each course of our unions intercourse serves as a small part of the smorgasbord of our love. Here is a gift of those memories in words to you. (Memory initiated emotions are just as good as imagination and the next best thing to being there. Although any of us can pass on (die) all of our memories can live on.) The words in this letter will live on and revive the spirit of our union whenever we read them. Our letters can capture those awkward and sometimes difficult moments of expression so short lived in time. This is just one gesture in a series of passionate overtures we'll exchange, like celebrating "Hump Day" each Wednesday; a far better idea then waiting and just living for the weekend. No matter what our words will live on In the midst of these frantic romantic antics injected into our marriage. (There is no limit to the power of a carefully crafted letter. The passion in the writing reflects the intensity of the testimony.) PASSION - AN INTENSELY STRONG BARELY CONTROLLED EMOTIONAL FORCEPassion is nurtured through practice. The behaviors we practice work as agents that produce both the physical and emotional feelings that accompany such experiences. Intimacy and passion have no boundaries of time or place for expression. Yes, there should be respectable limits to types of public display but never restrictions on when or where they are displayed. The "how" should be appropriate for the "where" as the "what" discretely enhances the "bond of intimacy." Many couples have confined arousal, teasing, pleasing, and intercourse to the bed or strictly in the bedroom. That is not reality, that is simply imitating "Hollywood." It is our natural inclination to utilize a room designated for privacy to express intimacy but intimacy is much more then a private expression. Whether its expressed through a look, a touch, a word or a vibe, any couple can develop this quality. Intimacy goes beyond any of the physical attributes of our flesh. Foreplay and other terminologies that describe our elaborate sensual relationships are inadequate descriptions of the emotionally innate desires within us. Human beings are the only known species on the planet with the ability to turn a primordial drive for affection and sex into a beautiful act of expression that has spiritual significance (intimacy). For all other species the sex drive is an instinctive and autonomously involuntary act of proliferation. And although the same drive functions within the human experience we are able to add the charm of glamour and appeal with mystery and excitement producing the fascination of "romance" that outlives the urge to simply reproduce. The spirit of passion can easily be nourished through a letter. Whatever we are passionate about and whatever passion we have can be nurtured and fed through written words. The power of the pen can have an affair with the power of love whenever we allow it. Remember that written documents have a life of their own. As authors (parents) of "write" (letters) we are beacons (sources) of "light"(information). Once we release our children (writings and words) they are on their own. Whenever and wherever those writings are read they will show that light can shine in the power of words through a letter of love.
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LIFE IS THE WAY EXISTENCE EXPRESSES ITSELF. BEING & LIVING ARE TWO OF ITS INTIMATE COMPONENTS. ANY CHILD'S TOY, DOLL OR IMAGINARY FRIEND HAS LIFE WHEN THEY "ENERGIZE" IT THROUGH PLAYING OR TALKING TO IT. IT IS SHORTSIGHTED TO DEFINE LIFE ONLY AS ANIMATE OR INANIMATE. HOW WE DEFINE LIFE IS HOW WE "LIMIT" & "LIVE" LIFE WITHIN ITS MULTIPLE DIMENSIONS. LIFE HAS A LOGIC AND LANGUAGE OF ITS OWN. WE MUST LEARN IT TO LIVE IT! ![]() LIFE IS GOOD AND THAT'S A FACT IT'S LIKE A PLAY WITH MANY ACTS. ![]() LIFE IS FUN IF LIVED THAT WAY ANOTHER ADVENTURE FOR EVERYDAY. ![]() LIFE IS SWEET JUST TAKE A TASTE AND CHERISHED TREATS WON'T GO TO WASTE. ![]() LIFE IS SHARED SO FIND SOMEONE TO SHARE IT WITH AND HAVE SOME FUN. ![]() LIFE IS SHORT SO TAKE SOME TIME TO CELEBRATE IT RAIN OR SHINE. ![]() LIFE IS LOVE THAT WE MUST GIVE AND IT'S THE REASON WHY WE LIVE. Life is as good as our mindset sees it. Life is as fun as our moods can make it. Life is as sweet as our tongue can taste it. Life is as shared as the friends who partake in it with us. Life is as short as the time we spend in it, and still the longest thing we'll ever do. Life is love and as such the goodness, fun, sweetness, sharing and shortness makes it wonderful!
![]() Talking about sex is as controversial as talking about politics. It is our first inquiry when a new life is born. Male or female, boy or girl is how we begin defining and distinguishing sex. In many species gender is not obvious or apparent. So gender alone does not describe today's definition of sex in its completeness. Although sex is fundamentally the most important distinction in life, it is also taken for granted among human beings. Sex is the most misunderstood, abused and unappreciated aspect of living. Sex in its modern definition has multiple characteristics. Aside from the main factor that allows us to distinguish the difference within a species, sex is also considered to be an act promoted by an innate force of attraction. Today we label and call this allure a "sex drive." As natural as it is, the evidence of an active sex drive fundamentally manifests itself visibly or invisibly through sight, smell or other senses. Sexual arousal stimulates both our intellectual and sensory faculties. The act is actually called intercourse. Like underage drinking, sexual intercourse requires a certain level of maturity to indulge in for moral, ethical and safely reasons. Unfortunately, todays acceptance of promiscuity has saturated the consciousness of people of all ages, cultures and religions. This is why there is a taboo associated with simply discussing sexual activity. Sex is both an act and an occurrence with a force that has its own impetus. As a noun and a verb it is not only something we are, but it is also something we do. Sex is actually a natural expression of our innate social energy. Whether enslaved, imprisoned or impoverished the sex drive continues to function regardless of the physical, mental or spiritual environment. Many people like to define sex by its gender, its activity or by it's physical characteristics. Neither the act of intercourse nor the identity of gender completely defines sex. Without its secret sauce, the ingredients that binds the urge to the act, sex is just a connection that results in physical pleasure and/or biological reproduction. When the act of sex is not a shared intimate and sacred act it is reduced to a mating ritual that animals instinctively engage in. When sex among human beings does not engage our shared emotional, intellectual and sensory faculties we can categorize it as desire, lust, masturbation, screwing and artificial insemination. The "act" of coitus can be simulated, the "results" can be mimicked, but its "essence" can never be duplicated. The secret sauce that sexual intercourse creates between two committed human beings aligns and harmonizes individual vibrations and energies into one. Sexual intercourse can merge the law of attraction with the law of love and bind them in ways that last for a lifetime. This is what the institution of marriage is all about. ![]() It is impossible to discuss sex without intimacy. In that sex is the most intimate act we can "physically" share. Intimacy and sex go hand in hand. Intimacy is the secret sauce of sex. Intimacy does not require sex for its full expression of energy, but sex without intimacy is severely limited. Intimacy exposes the vulnerabilities we share with one another through familiarity. In the "realm of sex," intimacy and vulnerability are synonymous. Intimacy is experienced through communication, closeness and commitment. Through intimacy's vulnerabilities come a sharing of privacy that has no shame. Only human beings have the capacity to be intimate emotionally, intellectually, physically, recreation-ally, financially and spiritually. The more areas of our lives that we are willing to share, the more we are open to intimacy. The more intimacy we experience the more uses and greater benefits we can derive from its energies. Intimacy involves collaborating the force of affection without having to work at it. Intimacy bonds two or more acts, actors and actions together in such a way that the longer they remain connected, the stronger and more complex their interwoven bond becomes. Many of us experience sharing and achieve closeness but fall short of the bond of intimacy. There is no greater expression of affection then through intimacy. Intimacy cannot be simply defined or restricted in its scope. Intimacy is the oil in the gears of relationships. Motors can run without lubricant but not quietly, smoothly or for long. Intimacy is the first cousin of longevity. The more areas of intimacy we share the easier it is to expand it into other areas. When older couples stop having sex it generally indicates some level of relinquishing one aspect of their bonding effect that sexual intercourse brought. This is not to say that they are no longer intimate. It simply means that portion of their bond is no longer strengthened through practice. As the word implies "intimacy" though shared is still a very private affair. We do not give or take intimacy, nor do we store or hold intimacy; we simply ARE intimate. Intimacy is not something we have to "do" it is something we want to "be." We maintain intimacy when we practice intimacy. Communication is the conduit for intimacy, without it intimacy cannot be shared! This is a subject most rarely delve into in a public forum. Although we discuss family, friendship, dating and relationships rarely do we talk about how intimacy inter-relates with them. There is a power produced through the intimacy of communicating and connecting that can only be wielded by those who recognize, practice and understand it. Being intimately acquainted means not only to be associated with but also an active participant in the making of the "secret sauce." The universe runs off of the energy it produces. The source of that energy is debatable for non-believers. but it is obvious to anyone that believes in GOD. Sex is also a source, a product and producer of energy. Although we speak of having sex that is a misnomer. Sex is more like a scene in a play, an act that is shared not owned or possessed. Sex is not static it grows matures and changes with age, experience and maturity. Well at least it should. Couples whose sex life has matured and grown with them may experience fundamental changes in their sex practices. Penetration may be compromised in favor of oral pleasures and the practice may become more spontaneous. Sex emerges as a private and individual energy of desire but blossoms into a impulsive radiant and powerful force. Sex shares it effect through, by and across nature. The very essence of all life as we know it is defined sexually. Exploring sex without sharing sex diminishes its overall effect. Sex energy has a certain vibration and may be described in terms of its physical manifestations. Intimacy and perpetuity are all a part of sexuality. What we may call a sex drive may be better described as instinct. Our built in programming naturally inclines us to use the powers of our sexuality. Sexual energy or what we term as sexual tension is a Yin Yang energy source powering our lives. Sex means more than intercourse. By narrowly defining sex primarily within its biological reproductive role we inadvertently limit its all encompassing role in life. The act of sex sustains the source of life. Sex is so special because it permeates every facet of our being whether we acknowledge it or not. Life on this planet is defined by its sexual orientation. Sex is in our laws, our designs, our philosophies, our literature and our computer coding. The more that we embrace the idea that life is sexual the better we will understand how to live it. As we engage with one another we should embrace the role of our mutually shared sexual predisposition. The sooner we accept our interdependence and the beauty of our attraction to one another the greater our appreciation for one another will be. In all of our unique diversities as a species the more we can understand about the innate substance that drives sex, the secret sauce, the more intimate we can be.
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AuthorJoseph W. Brown has been a small business owner, in the technology industry, for over 35 years. Joseph works as a mentor, tutor, lecturer, researcher, instructor, and unconventional speaker & writer. He can be described today as a spiritual and technical aggregator, maven, journalist, apologist and spiritual scientist. Joseph insists that we "find" motivation from within by getting inspiration from without. He endeavors to provide that inspiration through applying various Bible based principles. As the author & founder of The Magnetic Model, Rapid Retail Systems & NitchTechnologies.com. Mr. Brown is available to speak to groups of all sizes. (small & large) He will only speak on a "Subject." He relies on the principle of "shedding light" to empower individuals to address their own particular "Situations." These are the tools to create "Solutions." To schedule a session contact him by comments, [email protected] or call/text 617-764-2193. Archives
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